Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Prefer Cash For Wedding

Accumulo di ricordi

Per il tuo scialle nero
Lo piego, di nuovo, lo controllo,
lo riassetto - folate di ricordi,
perfume m'investono hands ...-:

I feel that the usurer
all day
pampers its pledge
guarantee of your return.


I wanted to start this post with a poem by Vanni Soave, a young poet of my areas, who died about a month ago in a car accident. Vanni was a lover of Montale's poems, so that was the subject of her thesis, but he was obsessed with shawls, which appear in almost all his poems and represent the very essence of femininity. But it is not poetic Vanni the topic of this post.

I scelto questa poesia perchè rappresenta a pieno una caratteristica del tutto maschile (ma anche qualche donna non ne è esente), ossia la tendenza a conservare oggetti e testimonianze delle relazioni passate, anche se finite male e definitivamente sepolte. Credo che questa abitudine dipenda dal fatto che gli uomini tendono ad attribuire agli oggetti dei valori simbolici, caricandoli di ricordi felici, nell'illusione di poter fermare il tempo, impedendo così di guastare il ricordo di quei momenti di gioia. Più o meno come fanno le ragazzine poco più che adolescenti, che coccolano la penna che ha regalato loro il ragazzino più figo della scuola oppure conservano gelosamente un suo bigliettino nel diario, quasi fosse una reliquia...

Ecco, gelosamente è la parola giusta. Quel ricordo felice coinvolge solo il diretto interessato, arrivando ad idealizzare la ex, ricordandone solo i pregi e dimenticandone i difetti, incluse le motivazioni per le quali la storia è finita. Ovviamente non ci vedo niente di male nel ricordare i bei momenti di una relazione/convivenza/matrimonio passato; il guaio è quando questi non vengono archiviati, ma continuano ad avere ripercussioni anche nelle relazioni presenti al momento.

Partiamo da una legge sacrosanta nel rapporto di coppia: mai parlare dei propri ex! A nessuno piace essere confrontati con chi ci ha preceduti e, soprattutto, pagare per i torti subiti da questi. Guardate che non è così difficile trovarsi in queste situazioni: «Per colpa di X, non riesco più ad innamorarmi di nessuno/a», è una frase tipica. Letteralmente si traduce "nonostante mi abbia ferito/a profondamente, io sono ancora innamorata/o di lui/lei e sono sicuro/a che un giorno ci ripenserà e tornerà da me, pentita/o, chiedendomi di ricominciare". Praticamente vi fanno capire gentilmente che voi non rivestite nessuna importanza rilevante...un consiglio, dettato dalla mia esperienza personale: lasciate perdere immediatamente, più resterete con lui/lei e più starete male...e vi assicuro che non ne vale la pena.

But it gets even worse if he has kept good relations with the former. I never believed in the phrase "let's be friends," the more you can say false, because when the other / a betroth you again, we hardly jumping for joy ... But the problem is when he, despite having an affair with you, praises her ex in your presence and not only that: if they make a wrong, or if she does something wrong, he defends or justifies his behavior. But the worst part was when she, in front of him, criticizes you or treats you like a rag, only because she came first and he knows much better than you ... and he, instead of defending remain silent .. .'s series "Who is silent consents." Altro consiglio personale, se malauguratamente vi capita una situazione simile: andatevene entro 5 minuti e non fatevi più sentire.

Come potete capire io sono una persona dalle decisioni drastiche; se lascio una persona, o se vengo lasciata, per me quella persona non esiste più. La disperazione iniziale dura appena qualche ora, poi volto pagina; non vale la pena di disperarsi per una persona, la vita va avanti. "Morto un Papa se ne fa un altro" è la mia citazione preferita; magari il conclave potrà essere lungo, ma prima o poi incontreremo sicuramente qualcuno che ci farà battere nuovamente il cuore...nessuno resta solo, neppure se vogliamo.

However, the drastic about my being there was everything in the report. I completely broke with all my ex, I was not no friends or on good terms ... in fact some of them did not miss a chance to spit venom on me and this convinces me even more not to reestablish contact with them. Even though I fear one day, the "revolt of the former" ... if it happens, I will change the planet!

The first thing I open, just ended a relationship, are the gifts received. The plush and various models are put into a box and taken to a home town: they will be most useful to them in the bottom of my closet. A speech applies to different items of clothing: I know that I will deliver them up to eat, I keep them, otherwise go to the clothing collection bins (for the same reason, stuffed animals). As for the valuables are returned.

A warrant special discussion photos, letters, cards and various portraits. Are put away and burned in the fireplace in winter, will be drastic, but I assure you do burn the face of those who made you suffer and feel bad, knowing the end will just throw it away the ashes that will make you a lot of good and finally throw in the past that history. We will review it in another way, more polished and less clouded by memories of those objects, better understanding the positives and negatives of that person. You will realize how these weights of the past, often affect the present and that, in the free, you will gain a lot ... and you can look at a prospective partner without the ghost of the previous one.

PS The poem comes from Vanni's first poetry collection, entitled "The rosary in the drawer" ... look at the case, the poems were created as gifts for a woman, what hopeless romantic ' was.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Two Owners On Car Title

Technine




This is a sample made by a friend .. a sort of test. I like it!

Diwali Greeting Cards Of Digital

CATALOGUE 2010 full preview

Finally, after exhausting research in the history of my old mac, I managed to pull out the link to see the catalog Technine 2010, almost the tenessero secret, is one of the hardest to find, at least it was for me.

rifarvi If you want to go to see the eyes Technine 2010 CATALOGUE CLICK!

Pocket Camcorder Optical Zoom

Nomis

some time trying to break the internet looking for news that will come in the months to come, especially those not present in Italy, or at least seen but little of good quality.
Fra le tante che ci sono in giro, attualmente sono riuscito a reperire il catalogo completo della nomis del 2010, nel caso vi possa interessare, il marchio di Simon Chamberlain è sempre bello stiloso, anche per il 2010.

Monday, July 6, 2009

How To Get Softer Pubes

"Una donna può cambiar la vita..."

"A man must have for exhibition, not as objects to be exploit ": Claire Zachanassian, the protagonist of the play" The Visit of the Old Lady "by Friedrich Dürrenmatt, says that talking about her ninth husband. But social climbers looking for two things: popularity and money in increasing amounts (both). It 's like starting from a raft into a boat, each time bigger and bigger ... until you find yourself on an ocean liner (in the hope that is not called "Titanic"). The comparison with the boat is not accidental: the possession of a yacht is the first thing they look at in this category.

there are plenty of examples, both in Italy and abroad, but the woman I chose is the emblem of the category. María Isabel Preysler Arrastia in the picture is: a model, journalist, ambassador and a regular guest on television talk shows in Spain, but in this context only speak of his "career" sentimental. Born in Manila February 18, 1951, daughter of the Executive Director of Philippine Airlines and a local entrepreneur, but both of English origin, hence it soon becomes clear that, as a teenager, he never attended the neighbors or the child ' plumbing, but many celebrities in the Philippines.

At 18 she is sent to study accounting in Spain, at a private Catholic institution, but does not lose the habit of going environments in high places. At a party charity (one day someone will explain because the rich people organize parties constantly charity ... guilt?) knows a young English footballer who, in addition to good standing, also has a beautiful voice, so he had just signed a record deal, "a pirate and a Sir, professional love, "or Julio Iglesias. He falls in love with her, the two birds will attend for six months and when he asks her to marry him, she accepts and spring studies of accounting: What is needed to study with a husband like that?
The two married on January 20, 1971 and from this marriage were born three children: Isabel, Julio Enrique Jose and best known. The marriage, however, lasted only eight years, the pair separated in July 1978, in August 1979, obtained the annulment of the Sacred Rota. I am a little bit informed about when the nullity of the marriage is lawful religious marriage imposed against the will of one or both spouses; psychological inability to make a real choice and marital psychological inability to fulfill the obligations mentioned above, the regularity the condition of the bond and the error at the time of consent, not consuming information from it.
That, they said "yes" when they meant "no"?

Since the end of this marriage she came out impoverished, indeed. The 70s were the most successful ones for the fascinating Julio, then un sostanzioso "indennizzo di buona uscita" lo ha sicuramente ricevuto. Ma da questo matrimonio ha ricevuto una cosa ancora più importante: la popolarità. Ed una popolarità a questo livello attira tutto, come una calamita: lavoro, carriera, soldi...e uomini, ovviamente. Così, il 23 marzo del 1980, sposa Carlos Falcò, Marchese di Grinòn, dal quale ha una figlia, Tamara. Ma questo matrimonio durò poco: nel 1985 si separarono e, nel 1987, ottennero il divorzio.

Ma non pensate che anche dalla fine di questo matrimonio ne sia uscita tanto impoverita. Oltre ad un ulteriore cospicuo "indennizzo", ottenne qualcosa che, anche se al giorno d'oggi non viene più considerato, fa sempre la sua figura: the noble title. However, our console has become very soon. Makers of separation from her second husband knows Miguel Boyer, the then minister of economy and business and in 1986 made their first public appearance. The two were married Jan. 2, 1988, and from this marriage was born his fifth and youngest daughter, Ana.

think that our beautiful and happy with her current third marriage? No, because a few years ago, in an interview, said that if he had the opportunity, would marry a fourth time. And I wonder: what does he want more?!?! He popularity, noble title, money to no end ... true love? I do not believe ... in the meantime diligently participate in festivals and receptions, signing contracts as a model, is a regular guest of talk shows ... the hard life of the wife of Spain's most famous!

How do you become like her, that rich people get married? Ah, I do not know, I do not mean. But some ideas, looking at his biography, I've done: you have to be inserted in the right environment, have the right connections, starting from a good family base, know at least one foreign language and a lot, but lots and chutzpah!